ये इश्क नही आसान बस इतना समझ ले ....आग का दरिया है..और डूब के जाना है॥!!! yup i knw its an age old cliche..par i feel it is the best way one can define love..!!ya ya iknw love is unconditional..love is friendship..this that..everything and what not..!!..i'm not soundin like some one in luv but it is true..love is'nt as romantic and as glamourous as it seems from the bird's eye view..the ground realities is that..love is difficult man..imean to love some one..to give some one priority over urself is tough..especially for a person like me..who loves himself very much..(which is a euphemism for a self obsessed narcisist)!!
see..my straight forward ideology is tht man by nature can never be satisfied..!!so if hes desperate to find his/her love..he won't be satisfied once he gets that..rather he'l find another reason to be upset..for example..chal chadd..this does'nt need examples..!!now here i'm takin big risk of upsetting my girl friend (darlin i realy realy love you and u knw it, and u also knw hw frustrated i cn be..)..shes my anti knocking agent..my catalyst..my refresh button..my step up transformer..but in times of trouble between us,.,.and for people with no prior experiance in this domain..such times can be often..one (read I) gets very irated,irritated..and such not so good '..ted's,..and then only ur obstainence (hope i splet that right)..perseverence..and ur belief in urself,the other person and the relationship can rescue..
i dun wana give a slightest of hints that one shud avoid gettin involved in this..its jus that..one shud come prepared..and not get carried over by the initial highs..some of the key areas of concern can be..difference in perception..a very comman observation..after al evry person is different..all u gotta do..includin me..is to respect the other person's ideology without comprimising urs..and most importantly comparin it with urs or ur family's..its as tough..(at least for me) as it is confusin..!! listen up..it is'nt tht this is happenin jus to me..its an epidemic when it comes to understanding..the conflict between ideoligies..and if u disagree..ur in a premature state..wait n watch..!! any ways..the hues of love..and being in love has been potrayed by many..and mind u..you will never be able to infraction the rainbow..u can not just go and say that i just want the violet from the VIBGYOR..and no matter how much u abhore yellow (as in case of my girl friend)..u'l always get that in the package..!!
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Sunday, January 27, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
CARE for a minute...ATLEAST..!!
Its 25TH JAN'08, not a special day in my calendar, when while reading newspaper, which is a daily routine, a strange paradox struck my eye, something which is very visible in any good daily everyday, but which we often oversee and ignore.
There was a news that a man, a kite maker by profession had pushed his two sons into a gushing river, they were aged 10 and 4, he was planning to drown another of his son and then take his own life when a passerby saw him and reported him to the police, he is now incarcerated under section 302. from where I see, poverty is all he is guilty of.
Turing another page I saw that the much talked about PDS scheme (public distribution scheme) where in essential commodities like wheat, rice sugar and kerosene are distributed to the ones below the poverty line, are being siphoned in the way towards their target, also as much as 39-49% of the goods is being distributed to those who are above poverty line, which is not at all shocking in our country, and I’m sure that onlookers like me will feel pity and turn the page, the govt. will promise setting up a committee to look into the matter, there will be some pseudo inspection, even if there is any, any ways time for the next page.
Well for those who do not know, the World Bank definition for poverty line for developing nations like India is US$ 1/day/person or approximately Rs 40, which means that 75% of India is under poverty line.
But we here in India we take the liberty of further marginalsing the line to Rs 10/day/person or US$ 75 for entire year. That amount which just means a movie at the multiplex for us (3 hours of entertainment), means a meal, shelter and clothing for 50% of India, for an entire year.
Turning another page I see yet another statistical data of the no. of peasants who took there lives in Vidharba and else where, well I had already done an in-depth analysis of how god forsaken those people are, so I didn’t have the guts of further depressing myself.
Now came the turn of the Business column, a page full of billions of dollars and the blabber of how Indian is trotting down the development lane. Sky rocketing sensex, amplitude of mergers and acquisitions progressing geometrically etc. etc. now I don’t say that it is bad, what I’m trying to say that why such an ironic situation doesn’t perturb any of the masses, why can’t the Indian growth story be more inclusive.
All said and done, I was at the end of my newspaper, and my clock signaled that it was time for the new blockbuster Hollywood action film which will be aired in minutes from now, so I just wrapped up my newspaper, grabbed a cola and wafers and got ensconced in my sofa, unperturbed….!!
There was a news that a man, a kite maker by profession had pushed his two sons into a gushing river, they were aged 10 and 4, he was planning to drown another of his son and then take his own life when a passerby saw him and reported him to the police, he is now incarcerated under section 302. from where I see, poverty is all he is guilty of.
Turing another page I saw that the much talked about PDS scheme (public distribution scheme) where in essential commodities like wheat, rice sugar and kerosene are distributed to the ones below the poverty line, are being siphoned in the way towards their target, also as much as 39-49% of the goods is being distributed to those who are above poverty line, which is not at all shocking in our country, and I’m sure that onlookers like me will feel pity and turn the page, the govt. will promise setting up a committee to look into the matter, there will be some pseudo inspection, even if there is any, any ways time for the next page.
Well for those who do not know, the World Bank definition for poverty line for developing nations like India is US$ 1/day/person or approximately Rs 40, which means that 75% of India is under poverty line.
But we here in India we take the liberty of further marginalsing the line to Rs 10/day/person or US$ 75 for entire year. That amount which just means a movie at the multiplex for us (3 hours of entertainment), means a meal, shelter and clothing for 50% of India, for an entire year.
Turning another page I see yet another statistical data of the no. of peasants who took there lives in Vidharba and else where, well I had already done an in-depth analysis of how god forsaken those people are, so I didn’t have the guts of further depressing myself.
Now came the turn of the Business column, a page full of billions of dollars and the blabber of how Indian is trotting down the development lane. Sky rocketing sensex, amplitude of mergers and acquisitions progressing geometrically etc. etc. now I don’t say that it is bad, what I’m trying to say that why such an ironic situation doesn’t perturb any of the masses, why can’t the Indian growth story be more inclusive.
All said and done, I was at the end of my newspaper, and my clock signaled that it was time for the new blockbuster Hollywood action film which will be aired in minutes from now, so I just wrapped up my newspaper, grabbed a cola and wafers and got ensconced in my sofa, unperturbed….!!
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