ये इश्क नही आसान बस इतना समझ ले ....आग का दरिया है..और डूब के जाना है॥!!! yup i knw its an age old cliche..par i feel it is the best way one can define love..!!ya ya iknw love is unconditional..love is friendship..this that..everything and what not..!!..i'm not soundin like some one in luv but it is true..love is'nt as romantic and as glamourous as it seems from the bird's eye view..the ground realities is that..love is difficult man..imean to love some one..to give some one priority over urself is tough..especially for a person like me..who loves himself very much..(which is a euphemism for a self obsessed narcisist)!!
see..my straight forward ideology is tht man by nature can never be satisfied..!!so if hes desperate to find his/her love..he won't be satisfied once he gets that..rather he'l find another reason to be upset..for example..chal chadd..this does'nt need examples..!!now here i'm takin big risk of upsetting my girl friend (darlin i realy realy love you and u knw it, and u also knw hw frustrated i cn be..)..shes my anti knocking agent..my catalyst..my refresh button..my step up transformer..but in times of trouble between us,.,.and for people with no prior experiance in this domain..such times can be often..one (read I) gets very irated,irritated..and such not so good '..ted's,..and then only ur obstainence (hope i splet that right)..perseverence..and ur belief in urself,the other person and the relationship can rescue..
i dun wana give a slightest of hints that one shud avoid gettin involved in this..its jus that..one shud come prepared..and not get carried over by the initial highs..some of the key areas of concern can be..difference in perception..a very comman observation..after al evry person is different..all u gotta do..includin me..is to respect the other person's ideology without comprimising urs..and most importantly comparin it with urs or ur family's..its as tough..(at least for me) as it is confusin..!! listen up..it is'nt tht this is happenin jus to me..its an epidemic when it comes to understanding..the conflict between ideoligies..and if u disagree..ur in a premature state..wait n watch..!! any ways..the hues of love..and being in love has been potrayed by many..and mind u..you will never be able to infraction the rainbow..u can not just go and say that i just want the violet from the VIBGYOR..and no matter how much u abhore yellow (as in case of my girl friend)..u'l always get that in the package..!!
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2 comments:
oye motu...i love ya....!!i dun care how complicated love is but i jus know one thing fr sure that it gives u reason to live...!
I am enjoying reading ur blogs, one after the other... this one was too good.. it made me smile and goo aww.. i knw wat he means wen he says tht...
Truely depicts love in its true essence..
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